feat: NATS JetStream + Todoist background sync (#21, #22)

Issue 21 — event infrastructure:
- NormalizedEvent<T> + payload types in packages/shared-types/src/events/
- Bus.onPublish() hook for side-effect bridges
- NATS JetStream adapter (services/api/src/events/nats.ts): connects when
  NATS_URL is set, creates signals.> and feedback.> streams, bridges all
  in-process bus publishes to JetStream — no-ops gracefully when NATS is absent
- NATS service added to docker-compose (profile: events|full, port 4222/8222)

Issue 22 — Todoist background sync:
- services/api/src/signals/scheduler.ts: queries all active-token users every
  15 min (TODOIST_SYNC_INTERVAL_MS), fan-out via todoistSource.fetchSignals()
  which emits signals.task.synced; on-demand fetch remains as freshness fallback
- NATS_URL + TODOIST_SYNC_INTERVAL_MS added to config

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

services/api/package.json

@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@
     "express": "^4.21.2",
     "express-session": "^1.18.1",
     "nanoid": "^5.1.0",
+    "nats": "^2.29.3",
     "node-fetch": "^3.3.2",
     "openid-client": "^6.3.4",
     "web-push": "^3.6.7",